SECOND LIFE DIVORCE COURT-PART 1
I have started this column so many times and then scrapped it. I wanted to start it with a question but I had so many questions, I just didn’t know what one to use. After a conversation I had with someone last night, which made me burst out laughing, i decided it was time.

I decided to write this column to see if anyone else, would like to tell me anything I didn’t know about my recent divorce. I am not writing it because I am heartbroken either I am writing it to clear my name and to warn others. Anyway, I wasn’t laughing because what I had just been told was particularly amusing but because I was given a picture in my head and I put myself in the position that this kind person had been dropped into without warning.
I am firstly going to take you on a bit of a role-playing experiment just to get you all in the mood.

Scenario 1
Imagine that you have been teleported into a wedding. It’s not a small second life wedding and there are lots of well known people at it. Imagine that while waiting to rez you recognise some names and then you see Rawly Rousselot and beside him you see Me, Natalie Niven. Like lots of people you knew what a errr, fun twosome we are.

Me, Natalie, I am the bride and I am preparing to be walked up the aisle to a waiting groom, Rob1977 Moonites . Ok, now that you have that mental image embedded in your head lets move on. Most people who attended the wedding that night, will already have that fun image, but let me take you on a walk through the mind of one of the guests, who wasn’t laughing or saying awwww isn't she lovely.

Try to envisage standing there watching, knowing that you knew something terrible that the bride didn’t know. Imagine that you knew, that your friend, who had teleported you to this wedding, was actually spending a lot of time with aforementioned groom. What would you do?

Would you IM the bride to tell her that you know something is wrong, that it was all a pile of shit, she was being cheated on, that she should get up of her knees, hit him up the face with her bouquet and walk off?
Would you IM Rawly to tell him to stop the wedding? Would you IM a bridesmaid and risk looking stupid and gamble being slammed for trying to wreck what appeared to be a perfect wedding?

Instead you go in IM with your friend and tell her what a disgraceful piece of trash she is to have the nerve to show up, when she knows what has been going on, because you have been mapping her ass for weeks?

After this and her reply is ”It’s not what you think” you sit and watch the wedding and listen to the vows. You think you might have maybe got it all wrong because you don’t think it’s possible for a man,( the groom) to be such a scumbag and to be such a good liar. I ask you all to put yourselves in this persons shoes and make a decision. What would you have done?

I will be continuing on with this fun scenario game, but for now I’d like you all just to think about this one and be blatantly honest. The other ones I am going to be giving you think over are really thought provoking. I will be naming and shaming because for me there is no shame in my game.

Lots of Love

Natalie xx